My partner and I have decided to go our separate ways. Before you all start sending your apologies please don’t. It is a mutual decision which in the long run will benefit us both, but what I am realizing is that adults breaking up is a lot harder to do then when you were in your early 20s.
I look at all the things that I have to do and wonder will I ever find anyone who will put up with my special brand of crazy ever again? Will I be able to cope on my own after 9 years of codependency. In two weeks we will start seeing whether this is going to be a total disaster or not. I am trying to stay positive but honestly, I don’t know how long I can keep this up for.